Mother's Day

(Before mother's day)
No offense to the mommies here but I have a hard time with mothers day. My mom and I never really have gotten along so it just brings up guilt and then on top of it I'm reminded all day long that I can't have kids. For the last three years I've actually avoided going to church because of the no kids issue... it bugs me that the two are so closely related. I'm still not sure if I'll be going to church on Sunday or not.
My family isn't going to be going to the church that my husband and I go to b/c they're going to go with my grandparents, but it still doesn't make the (I feel) stupid day any easier to sit through.
Anyone else have issues with Mother's day?

(After mother's day)
On Mother's day I slept in, didn't go to church and then I went to my in-laws for dinner. Things went OK... Kinda boring though. My parents and grandparents where their too. I love my grandparents dearly! Both my hubby and I have been sick since the day before mothers day so we weren't very social and we've both just mopped around the house since.
Keeping things low key this year helped, but I know I can't do this forever.