God knows what He's doing - So true!

Often times I come into discussions with people who want to pray away my arthritis or infertility. As if these issues are simply a weakness of faith, and they can fix it. This saddens me. Not the question of faith (though that has it's own issues) but because it limits God, His will, and His plans.

I would love to rid myself of these burdens, but intellectually I know that this is my body, my make up and my issues to deal with. Intellectually I know there are medical steps I can take to care for and manage my diseases, and I know my doctors have my best care in their interest.

Chronic disease and illness and infertility are all things that non-believers deal with too. These health issues are something that alienates and frustrates, even depresses. Who is going to reach out to such a person? To help them find grace and hope in Him? Someone who leaves them with broken promises and an accusation of not having enough faith to heal themselves? No, I think the people who might reach those people are the ones who know the depths of that despair and yet still have some hope in something. In God.

I want a normal life again, I want to have a day go by where I'm not limited with daily back pain and fatigue, and sleep issues and all the rest of the things I complain about, but if I didn't have these things, would I still have that connection with others? Would my story matter to them as much?

Now I'm not saying I have a track record of saving souls through my illnesses, I honestly have no idea if there are people out there seeking God because of my words, but, I have hope that I am doing His will, and that as a result others would see God's grace through me. I do know that people listen and internalize though, and that maybe they might not make a change of heart at this moment, but maybe it plants seeds and from there growth and spiritual healing begins, and isn't spiritual healing more important than any earthly physical healing?

Sometimes I hear people say God doesn't desire struggles and sadness for His children, but I struggle with accepting that at the same time as knowing there is an entire book, the book of Job, where God allows so many things to happen to Job. I am not saying I am Job, but I am saying that the Word does show us examples of God allowing His faithful to endure horrific things. And in the end is what matters. In the end of Job's story he has a deeper understanding of the awesomeness of God, he has a greater appreciation of the gifts he receives from God, and his testimony of faith grows from it. What an amazing legacy! And all through suffering.

Our pastor recently wrapped up a sermon series on the book of Job, and the whole thing was very much an encouragement to me. Even though the sermons have now switched gears to the book of John, God is still having me examine Job's story... Yesterday I made a new online friend who also has Ankylosing Spondylitis. It was so encouraging to see another sister in Christ dealing with the same issues as me. I'd never wish this on anyone, but knowing I'm not walking this road alone was a great encouragement! Still thinking about Job, while rejoicing over this new friendship, I opened my blog feeds to see a new post from her, and it was on none other than this very topic! Amazing how God is laying the same Word on our hearts!

After I read her post the ending stood out to me quite a bit.

God owes no one anything. No reasons. No explanations. Nothing. If he gave them, we couldn’t understand them. God is God. He knows what he is doing. When you can’t trace his hand, trust his heart.

Please read her post as a whole, but I had to share that part because it's so true. If God heals me of this disease and/or gives me children that is only out of His goodness, grace, mercy, and would truly be a gift. But I can't be envious of not having that gift. Just because it's possible doesn't mean it's intended for me. I may have far greater gifts and blessings in my future that I can't understand now... Having an entire book in the #1 read book in all the world certainly would be a huge treasure, but I seriously doubt Job had any idea of that as he endured his sufferings.

I firmly believe there is a purpose for me being at home, sitting on the net in my PJ's, making connections with others on this road and praying for and with them about these things. This will not change the fact that I have days like yesterday where all I could muster was to text my hubby to pick up pizza on his way home. Or the times when the chemical issues of my illnesses cause me depression, but what does change is how I get through it all, that while things feel overwhelming on a constant basis I still have my hope and faith in Christ. I still trust that a day will come when His believers are taken to a new life, a heavenly life. I so look forward to that day! I hope my journey encourages others to find such a hope for themselves as well.

I'm so thankful for this new friendship. The isolation has felt overwhelming, and as I was going through her blog I was reading things that I swore I've written myself. There is a sense of camaraderie there, that isn't found elsewhere. And I can't think of many other causes or reasons that would bring a new friendship together between to different people on opposite ends of the states together other than God and His amazing gifts. The internet is a powerful tool, and I'm blessed that when I prayerfully use it, God uses it with me to my benefit.

I've also been focusing on Romans 5:1-5 (ESV) My dear friend Dana brought it back to my attention recently and I am seeing it with a greater understanding this time. Dana is also a blessing of friendship that God has blessed me with. She also struggles with her infertility, and yet continues to find her hope and faith in Him. Her openness, honesty, and candid reflections of her journey blesses me. I've often meditated on Romans 5:1-5, but have found now that I've missed a major part of it.

Therefore, since we have been justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ. Through him we have also obtained access by faith into this grace in which we stand, and we rejoice in hope of the glory of God. More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.

The part I have been missing is the journey. It's so easy to see the gifts in this passage and say "Yes, Lord! I claim this for me! Give me!" But there is a reason this passage lays out a journey. You don't get instantly teleported from sufferings to hope, there's mile markers along the way, there is endurance, and character, and then, finally we get to hope. I see how in other parts of my life and spiritual walk I've arrived at hope, but I see that in this particular journey I'm still somewhere between suffering and endurance. I see too that the times I've made this journey have given me the roadmap to hope on this particular trek, for that I am thankful. The peace I have through faith is how I am reminded of this. It's were I've seen my past sufferings grow me to the point I am now, and equipping me with the understanding that "More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings!" because only by dealing with suffering can I walk the path of endurance, character and hope.

Another blog post I cam across that follows in this thread is here, for those of you who want to read this topic further now.