This is simply horrific! A Wal-Mart employee died, and a woman was said to have miscarried her baby yesterday all because of people so completely eager to get those "Black Friday" deals.
(Read here)I don't go out shopping in crowds much any more since I move so slowly. And I've never been one for these big sales. It's just things like this that make me think mankind must truly be sinking to a new all time low. This is not what the holidays are supposed to be about. Thanksgiving is supposed to be about giving thanks, not skimming the ads and planning just how much money you're going to waste at Wal-Mart. ...Not getting up early and stampeding people, just to get 'that deal' before anyone else. Dude? Ever hear of rain-checks? Go the the store later and if they're out, get the rain check and go back the next day or something. Or is that too much of an inconvenience, is that enough reason for a mob to take two lives in the name of gifts, greed, and capitalism?

I just think this is all a symptom of a greater issue. For decades Christmas has lost it's meaning with most people. It's a month long exercise in spending more than it is about reflecting about the gift God gave by coming to earth in human form to teach and save the world. It's that ultimate gift from God that should be why we share gifts at Christmas. Yes, the Wise Men gave baby Jesus gifts. But they were specific gifts, expensive, and meaningful to him as a person, they weren't a .50$ pair of knit gloves from the local discount store, or some piece of cheap jewelry that will fall apart a few months later. No, they were gifts that were to honor him as the King they knew He was born to be. I firmly believe that with gift giving, it should be what you can, and when you can. And it should be unique, and meaningful, and something the person receiving it should need, use, or appreciate. I'm not saying this because of being a picky gift receiver, I'm saying it to make people think about why they buy and give stuff? Is it simply an 'all December retail therapy shopping spree' or are the gifts being given truly meant as a gesture of kindness to the person receiving it? The other question is how much are people simply being greedy and using these sales to buy for themselves, verses getting gifts for others. I think some people might be shocked at just how much people buy for themselves verses others this time of year. There's this sense of entitlement with shoppers that I saw when I used to work retail. That 'you need to get something for yourself to reward yourself for all the hard work you're doing by being out there and shopping in the crowds to give all this stuff to others'. Honestly, that's sad!
I think this is the last straw for me. If we come across things that are the right gift for someone we'll buy it and give it, if not, I'm not going to go store to store looking for something, or buying random stuff to give. Finances are an issue this year, and yes, this plays into it. But I also can't see how any of this is worth it. I'm usually left in pain just from the longer grocery store trips, why go to the mall or other stores if I don't have to. Sure I can get a wheel chair to use while there, but it's still a question of why the gift giving in the first place, and how it's done!?
This year we are looking to refinance our home, pay off medical bills of mine (MRI's are not cheap, even with insurance, and I still need a couple more done soon!) get me a walker, pay off other bills, and work on home repairs. We need to be responsible to ourselves first. If we're able to get and give gifts along the way, that's great, and that's God's provision, but at the moment we don't see how it's really all that possible. We're trying hard to get out of debt, and to be better responsible financially. We both think this involves being rather low on any gift giving, if we are even able to. It doesn't mean we don't want to reciprocate gift giving, or that we don't love people and want to give, it's just where we're at right now.
I think a lot of people are in these kind of situations, and I think this is some of why a place like Wal-Mart was where this issue happened, and not someplace like Macy's. Most people need to find the deals to afford to give gifts, but really, should they be gift giving if finances are that much of an issue?
I'm sure I seem overly opinionated to people, and whining about my own situations here. But really, all I'm getting at is these are my reasons and proofs for why I think Christmas gift giving is so off mark anymore. Give gifts, but do it as you can, make them meaningful, don't fill a room with crap people will get rid of eventually because of not really wanting it. More doesn't mean better. If you can give bigger and better gift and more of them, and that's what works for you, than by all means, spread the merriment, but if you're just getting by, will be paying off the credit card bills with resentment for several months following, and don't really have a purpose for the gifts, then why bother?
I'm certainly not the first to come to these conclusions.
Wikipedia says that it protests where started back in 1968 by an "Elie Clark". Like I said, this has been an issue for decades, this latest news is just a new low.
The
Buy Nothing Christmas website is a great site, I highly recommend checking it out!
UPDATE: Since writing this post I've read that the woman and baby actually are fine according to a police officer quoted by the AP. I hope that's true. If so that's a blessing. The issue still remains that the child's life was put in jeopardy by the actions of this event.
(See here.)SECOND UPDATE: According to
Fox News Business there were even more 'Black Friday' related deaths at a Toys R Us store! Honestly, what is this world coming too!?
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